ok ive been very inactive for a while but,, anywho i made a new blog and i will not be using this one anymore (maybe check up every once in a while) so feel free to follow my new one (i would very much appreciate) !!!
so the new one is https://hienovarainen.tumblr.com
thank you and bye !!!
en selfie blir ekstra kul med en flaske cava.
aka skam’s most loving and long-lasting otp: vilde x wine
you ever see girls that are so pretty that you don’t know what to do with yourself
i made a pretty girl laugh w/a silly joke and i got so flustered that i apologized
emoji spell to protect your pets
for protection and love
like to charge, reblog to cast
i reblogged this too many times and now my dog is fucking invincible
He’s too strong
- Not taking your child’s injuries seriously when they’re younger, may make them feel like they can’t tell you anything when they’re older.
- PLEASE let your kid take personal days once in awhile once they reach highschool.
- Grades are NOT everything. You can get plenty of well paying jobs now without having to go to college.
- Really strict parenting leads to sneaky kids. Trust me.
- Let them be who they want. They can’t change who they are, whether it is sexual orientation, gender identity or anything else. They need someone to support them.
- ^ Never say “you’re too young to know”
- ¼ teenagers deal with a mental illness of some sort (in the U.S). Please make sure they’re okay.
- You can’t MAKE them chose an educational field.
- Even an A+ student who’s a star athlete can be suicidal. - MENTAL HEALTH COMES FIRST - Self harm is more common than you think amongst teenagers. It’s also not always cutting (or on wrists). Be aware.
- Sex ed. doesn’t teach them anything.
- Tattoos and piercing aren’t “unprofessional” anymore
- If they have depression, please DO NOT call them lazy. It’s almost the worst insult you could say.
- If their grades are dropping for no reason, ask about it. Don’t assume things.
- Most teenagers don’t have high self esteem. Don’t make it worse.
- School is much harder now than it ever has been before.
- Not everyone on the internet is a predator
- It’s normal to have internet friends now
- Take them seriouslyAlso
- Don’t take their phones/computers away from them, as that is severing a link to what could be the only people that understand and care about them
- Don’t get mad at them for always being on their phone/computer. They have friends online and it’s absolute hell to get yelled at by parents for talking to your friends-Don’t force them to be more outgoing, especially if they show signs of not enjoying large groups of people
-Don’t say, “You don’t know who you’re talking to,” about their internet friends
-Don’t yell at them ever, especially if they have a fear of loud noises
-If they tell you that they’re hallucinating, don’t say, “That’s just your imagination running off with you.”
-Also, don’t say that they’re making up something that is legitimately hurting them
-Don’t force them to do anything that they aren’t interested in
-Don’t say that you’ll get help for them without actually getting anyIf your son what’s to get his toenails painted, like mommy… LET HIM.
If your daughter wants to try out for football, LET HER.
If you son wants a doll so he can play take care f the baby, like daddy’s taking care of the real baby, BUY HIM ONE!
If your daughter wants a tool set for Christmas, BUY HER ONE!
Also Never tell your son he can’t cry because “boys don’t cry” If your daughter does something she really loves and you don’t, never tell her it’s not “lady like” Harming your kinds never solves things, if anything it makes them hate you, and I’m not talking only about slapping
Also, don’t assume everyone of your kids opposite gender is their boyfriend/girlfriend and make fun of them about it because they will feel insecure about when they actually find someone they like or if they aren’t straight, it might just be worse.
also don’t expect your kids to respect you if you don’t respect them
dj, cue the jock jams, please
I don’t have words to express my love for this one.
